Create the BEST KISSING

Kissing is a way of expressing attraction, desire, and love. It is a way of caressing and touching another person in a very close and adoring way. A kiss is a sweet, sweet caress! It is a way of communicating an endless number of things to another person.

Who doesn’t memorize with great fondness their first kiss? How many books tell about kissing? People have changed their minds or opinions about something because of a kiss. Arguments have been resolved because of a single kiss. We keep in mind great movies because of a wonderfully romantic kiss.

We all think of these things when we imagine of kissing, but of all the things that have been said about kissing there is one that should always be remembered. If you truly want to be a good kisser, then you should kiss someone as if it were your last kiss on earth.

How to Kiss

·         Don’t rush things – Men tend to rush into things and women feel pressured when they do.

·         Relax – There’s nothing worse than a tight lipped, impersonal, and cold kiss

·         Enjoy the moment and follow the flow of your partner’s motions.

·         Visualize both bodies joined as one while touching and feeling the very soul of your   partner.

·         Don’t think of other things while you’re kissing. Breathe intensely then enjoy the moment. Feel the passion flowing through you. A passionate kiss does not mean exploring every last inch of the other person’s mouth. That would be too violent a kiss. The right way is to slightly open the mouth and flick the tongue in slowly and intermittently gradually increasing the length of time that the tongue remains in the mouth.

·         The first kiss leaves a lasting impression and should be a positive one. Don’t ruin it by getting nervous and rushing into the kiss and wanting more than just a kiss. Remember there is plenty of time for everything.

·         Express the pleasure you feel to your partner. Let them know that you are enjoying the kiss. Capture your partners’ rhythm without getting carried away. Start with slow soft kisses. Let the intensity grow stronger as the kissing continues. A kiss is more intense if it’s followed by body language. There are several ways this can be done: By moving the head from one side to the other while kissing, Or intertwining hands during the kiss. Another way is by touching the back of the neck and holding the head during the kiss. All of these gestures intensify the passion of the kiss as long as the other person is following the same body language and rhythm. If they aren’t then the kiss should probably stop.

·         But most importantly always, always remember to kiss as if it were your last kiss on earth.

The Test

If you followed the steps above then you know how to kiss. But how do you know if the other person is still interested. You can tell by trying the following technique: As a passionate kiss ends, very slowly withdraw from the kiss until your lips are slightly apart from your partners, and wait a second or two. If your partner draws near again then that indicates that your partner is passionately involved in the kiss. If your partner doesn't draw near again then the kissing should probably stop.

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Are you Ready for HAVING SEX ???

Many people, mainly teenagers ask themselves if they are ready to have sex. There is no one right time to have sex and everyone is ready to have sex at different times in their lives. Sometimes, our morals and value system determine when we are ready to have sex.

Other times, we rely on both our heads and our hearts to tell us that we are ready to have sex. The choice to have sex is a big decision and should not be a decision that is entered into carelessly. The question am I ready to have sex is a question that almost everyone asks themselves at some point in their lives. Unluckily, not many people will be able to respond it with a definite “yes or no.” You are the only person who knows if you are really ready to have sex. But, here are some questions that will hopefully help you work it out.

1.    Are you having sex because YOU want to have sex? If you are feeling stress to have sex from your partner or friends then, please don’t have sex.

2.    Do I know my partner well enough? If you don’t belief your partner then, you shouldn’t have sex with them. In addition, if you have never kissed the person that you are with, then you are definitely not ready to have sex with them. Moreover, sex can run off you vulnerable afterwards in a way that you are not prepared for., so it is better to be with someone who you know is likely to be sticking around for a while or for the long haul. Usually, you will have better sex with someone you know really well and are comfortable with, and sex will be best with someone you love.

3.    Can I talk to my partner about this easily? If you can’t converse about sex, then you are not ready to have sex. It is as easy as that. Honesty about how you are feeling will make it easier for both of you and it will make sex better in the future.

4.    Do I know enough about sex?

5.    Do we both want to have sex? You may make a decision that you are ready to have sex but your partner might not be ready to have sex, even if they have had sexual partners before. It is very essential to know that for sex to work, you both have to want to do it. Don’t ever force anyone to have sex if their not sure; this is very wrong and it will cost you your partner’s respect and the respect of other people. Here is how to know when someone isn’t ready to have sex.

6.    Ask your partner. This is the simplest way to find out if they desire to go “all of the way.”

7.    Read your partners body language. If they are moving away from you or trying to leave, then STOP! However, if they are warming up to you then, they probably do want to have sex.

8.    Listen to the character of their voice.

9.    Always use ordinary sense.

10.  Some people want to have sex after a first date and some people want to have sex only after they get married. Everybody is different so it is very important to know what you and your partner wants.

11.  You only lose your virginity once. Your partner might not be as eager to lose theirs as you are.

12.  Always keep in mind, NO means NO!

13.  Good luck, have fun, and stay safe.

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LOve & SEx

In almost every romantic relationship, sex is a key aspect. Yes, you might love one another deeply, but generally, it all started with that spark of sexual attraction. Many people come together because they are physically attracted to each other and the emotional ties grow stronger from that point on. Additionally, they also like each other.

New relationships are often like the sexual Olympics. There is sex in the morning, sex in the afternoons, and definitely sex in the evenings. Double that when you see each other less frequently. In the beginning, the air is deep with infatuation and lust. As time goes on, this dwindles down a bit, but the glimmer still exists. Real couples that have been together for a significant amount of time usually have sex less often than new couples.

Emotions have a big part in the sexual activity of real couples. When one is tired, physically or emotionally, sexual desire is often reduced. It possibly will not have anything to do with his or her lust for their partner. But, emotions and stress both do have a direct affect on the libido.

Sometimes, there is truly more sex when one partner is emotionally drained or overextended. In these conditions, sex could be used to fill a void, much like over-eating, drinking, or taking drugs. Real couples might use sex as a way to ease this stress in one another as well.

Sexual action among real couples is usually a way to connect with one another. If there is a lack of sex in a relationship, problems often occur. One or both parties may begin to feel unsatisfied, unfulfilled, unattractive, or unwanted. A combination of these feelings could occur. Jealousy may arise.

It is vital to keep a healthy sex life in a relationship. Real couples benefit from an active sex life emotionally, mentally, and physically. Often sexual frustration can result in depression and anger or the contradictory can be true – dejection and anger can lead to a lack of sex or sexual desire.

Real couples in a healthy relationship talk about their sex life and are interested in keeping the other satisfied. It is always vital to be aware of the sexual wants and needs of your partner. It is not always easy to maintain a spicy sex life, but trying new things with your partner can make all the dissimilarity. If there is something one partner would like to try, as long as it does not make the other feel unsafe or bumpy, the other should engage in the activity. Real couples often try this to keep the spice!

The truth is real couples have their ups and downs psychologically and sexually. A real relationship is not always going to be peaches and cream and it takes a lot of work for the participants. Real couples that preserve healthy relationships do battle and argue, and do have periods where there is not much sex, but they work them out. Communication and consideration are the keys to real life relationships.

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Explore Sexuality

Sexuality is related to the biological, psychological, social, emotional, and spiritual dimensions of our lives. Sexuality starts with us and our relation with ourselves and extends to our relations with others. Our relation with ourselves includes how we feel about ourselves as a person, as sexual beings, as men and women, and how we feel about our body and how we feel about sexual activities and behaviors.

Our relations with others may include friendship, emotional intimacy, love, and/or sexual activities. We are all sexual people regardless of disability or illness and we have a right to live a fully sexual and satisfying life. What it really comes down to is that sex is how you describe it, as an individual, based on your experiences and feeling. When most people say they have “had sex” or talk about “sex” they mean vaginal contact, but for many, that doesn’t sum up what sex are very well.

Many of us find it better to define “sex” as being whatever it is that arouses us in a sexual way. For some, that is vaginal contact, but for others that may be oral sex, masturbation, digital (with hands) sex, anal contact, sex with toys like vibrators, or even kissing and petting.  Because people and their sexualities are so different, definitions of what sex is or isn’t also vary really widely.It’s really important that we not let someone else describe what sex is for us — after all, how can they know what sex is for anyone but themselves?

We can have the best sex if we find out for ourselves what makes us sexual, instead of letting another person tell us what does for them, and ascribe that to us. We are all very different people, with different bodies, experiences, desires and responses, and what sex is to one person; it may not be to another.

Having a more open defintion of sex also helps people to remember to have sex responsibly. If we say only vaginal contact is sex, then a lot of people think that having sex safely only need apply to that sort of sex, which isn’t true at all.

Give your self time to explore what it really means to you. In my experience, the older you get, and the more diverse your sexual experiences are, the more you begin to realize that so many things can be sexual; trying to define which things they are arbitrarily is just plain silly.

If you choose to have sex, latex condoms give you good protection because they are barriers – something that keeps you away from your boyfriend’s or girlfriend’s sex fluids. Other birth control methods only protect you from unwanted pregnancy.Using a condom isn’t 100% safe against pregancy or STDs–only abstinence is–but it offers the best protection from STDs and pretty good protection from pregnancy if you do have sex. The best protection is to use birth control pills or depo provera to prevent pregnancy AND latex condoms to protect against STDs.

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What teenagers need to hear from Parents.

Parents, teenagers need to hear from you! Sometimes, it seems impossible to start a two-way conversation with your child. A lot of the times, feel that teenagers are too old to sit down and talk to mom and dad, but teenagers’re not. Talk to them about the problems teenagers face the most. Remember, teenagers need your opinions, your guidance, your support, and most of all your love.

First of all, you might ask, “What are the problems that our teenagers face the most?” I’ll tell you plainly. Sex, drugs, and violence, these are the things that you should talk to them about the most. Also, when teenagers come in from school, if you ask them what teenagers did in school, never accept, “Oh, nothing’” as your answer. Talk to them about teachers, schoolmates, and grades. But, if teenagers go in our room and shut the door, that probably isn’t the best time for you to walk in and talk to them. Wait until a time when you think teenagers might be more receptive to what you have to say.

When you find the time to talk to them always listen first. Then, give them your opinions on what teenagers talked about. Teenagers need to know how you feel. But one thing you don’t do is try to force your opinion on your child. Tell them what you would do or how you would’ve handled a problem if you teenagersre in our shoes.

Also, teenagers need your guidance. Tell them how you don’t approve of violence and what other ways teenagers can settle conflicts. Tell them about the drastic effect that sex and drugs can have on them physically and mentally. If school is the area in which teenagers need assistance, offer your help, but don’t push it. If grades are where improvement is needed, how about suggesting an afterschool tutorial program? If your help is rejected by your child, don’t feel bad, it’s just phase.

In addition to guidance, teenagers need your support. Talk to them and tell them that you’re always here to give help if it’s needed. Whatever choices teenagers have to make, talk to them and tell them that you’re behind them all the way (as long as the choice made by your child is reasonable).

And, the last and most important thing of all is that you not only show them, but tell them repeatedly that you love them. With your help, you can make the journey through the conftheming adolescent years just a little better. Talk to them. Parents, teenagers need to hear from you!

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